December 2011
38 posts
Lilie Zen Coach: 10 Ways to Love Others →
thelittlesea:
Some guidelines for loving:
1. Tell them about their brilliance. They likely can’t see it and they don’t know its immensity, but you can see it, and you can illuminate it for them.
2. Be authentic, and give others the gift of the real you and a real…
Ask me things!
Or not.
But yeah. Please ask me things, so I may divert my attentions from going to sleep. :)
One of them nights...
Folk on my dashboard are certainly feeling themselves…and wanting to feel other people. I ain’t mad doe.
“I’ll watch, I’ll watch, I SWEAR I’ll watch!” (c) Bernie Mac
Having a bad day?
Talk to a creative about their latest project. Feel that energy? That passion? Go to a message board where people are sharing their work. They are creating something - a play, a poster, a song - and they are PASSIONATE. You can’t tell them shit, and you definitely can’t tell them they’re going about it wrong.
Now, take that energy. It’s tangible, and you can probably...
Tantric Self Love →
honeyedexcrements:
Self-pleasuring can be a tantric meditation, especially when it’s done with consciousness and creativity. It allows you to get out of your head and into your body. It can be a way to resolve issues by turning off the thinking mind and letting the unconscious do the work….
This, and some yoga.
blowtomelt asked: I don't think you are slamming. I think you are just different and have your own list of things you value in a female you choose to spend time with. I was asking what would be on your list.
blowtomelt asked: what would you name?
blowtomelt asked: What do you mean?
Motivated..
I wrote earlier about wanting to be better. A better me and all of that. And I’m ready to start doing that.
I’m not going home for Christmas, and in this long weekend, I will:
Write a short erotic story
Draw at LEAST three sketchbook pages worth of something
Draw something that someone requests
Read some of the stack of books I have sitting around
And I’ll post some of this...
On helping children, and the very real threat...
So, I was thinking of signing up to be a mentor. To young black boys especially, but really to any kid that I could help in some way.
There really seems to be a prevalence now of stories of adults molesting and mistreating kids. Of adults misusing authority and doing some horrible, horrible things to children that don’t need that in their lives. I’m not going to add to that score, but...
Advice to a 19 year old niece...
I’m writing her a letter, and I’d like to give her two pieces of advice, to not overdo it with the “overprotective uncle” thing. Anything you’d wish you’d known at 19?
Resolution...
I’ve done some things that I’m not proud of. Hell, all of us have.
I’ve hurt people, and no matter if I did so intentionally or not, the hurt is still there.
What I was doing was really marinating in that, of really getting down on myself because I wasn’t able to attain a level of conduct I was reaching for. I want to be someone you call on, to be a support, and my...
Big Areolas are Better!: I don't understand why... →
babyboygreen:
ghdos:
junderstated:
He has his relationship with God and he does not go around trying to force it on others but yet it still continues to be an issue or “story” on ESPN. I don’t get it.
I don’t either. It’s like people expect him to be apologetic for saying he…
I disagree entirely. All he’s doing is saying “LOOK AT ME!” in a way that just so...
“A man who carries a cat by the tail learns something he can learn in no other...”
– Mark Twain (via politicalprof)
A little bit country...and not.
I was outside, helping my uncles stack wood.
I thought, yo, I gotta pee.
So I came indoors to go pee.
I went back outside…
…and thought…
I just came FROM OUTDOORS…
…TO COME INSIDE…
….to pee.
I coulda gone behind a tree, or just whipped it out in the yard. But no. Went INSIDE.
Yeah, I’m a city boy at heart.
blowtomelt asked: I agree. Just wish certain things didn't require having to deal with other people. How do you deal?
A story from vacation...
Scene: It’s almost 60 degrees here in MS. Beautiful and still and warm.
Mom: If I had chirren, I’d take them outside with me today. Me: And what would you do with them, if you HAD chirren? Mom: Go outside. Throw a ball or something. Me: Not tell them to “SITCHO ASS DOWN SOMEWHERE? That seems more like you.
She laughed. And we went outside and threw a ball a couple times.
And...
One small thing...
I remember being a kid, and my parents were all about maturity. I’d ask why I couldn’t stay up past 8, or play Nintendo when I wanted. “You have to show us that you’re mature and you can handle that,” they’d say.
I remember doing something - don’t remember what - but then crowing to my parents that I had did it, that I was oh-so-mature now and...
Changes and epiphanies and...
About to go on a trip to see my people, and won’t be around for a minute, but I wanted to share a little something I’ve learned in the past few days/weeks:
-You have gone through things that have fucked you up. Things that you’ve traced that are the causes of why you do fucked up things and feel certain ways. Thing is, IS THAT IT? Is that all you are? You’ve done half the...
Politicalprof: Everything's Political, part II →
politicalprof:
Today’s installment of how partisanship shapes and reflects judgment, television edition: favorite television shows by party id (not in order of popularity). Politicalprof’s choices are starred. And BBC’s Top Gear rocks. (Not the US version.)
Democrats The Daily Show* The Colbert Report* …
This Democrat LOVES Mythbusters. And Top Gear is the shit.
"The present is a gift, and I just wanna Be."
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